Truth and Wisdom – Our Internal GPS – Navigating Treacherous Seas

“If you cannot bring yourself to speak the truth without apology; speak nothing.” Frances Roberts

Have you noticed that people qualify so much of what they say before they even get to the point? In doing this, many lose what they are trying to say because before they say what they are saying, they lay a foundation in excessive words, which erodes clarity and authority. This post builds upon some other blog posts. A Clear Sound and Speak the Truth. 

TruthWisdom is key to navigating treacherous waters of fear of man and compromise. And again, wisdom is not some ethereal concept. Wisdom is found in Christ. Wisdom is Jesus.

But of Him you are in Christ Jesus, who became for us wisdom from God — and righteousness and sanctification and redemption — 31 that, as it is written, “He who glories, let him glory in the Lord.”(1 Corinthians 1:30-31 NKJV)

Knowing when to speak, when to be silent and how to even say what you want to say is directed by Holy Spirit. Wisdom navigates these waters in a clear path right through waves that  threaten to capsize us in fear and compromise.

In my life, I know this. Truth always surfaces in some way, in some form. So, if I don’t focus on walking in my convictions (which may mean I am silent at times,) I will lose credibility when it is discovered that I am trying to cover my bases on all fronts. Some actually don’t care about honesty and make their living out of shifting and lying to gain the approval of man. What is equally dangerous  is that many can’t even tell the difference. We need discernment along with wisdom.

Truth shifts to meet the demands of the moment. This is a dangerous place to be. Truth is absolute – absolutely in Jesus Christ. Truth is the overflow of a life hidden in Christ.

Many preach tolerance, justice and freedom but when I disagree with them, a double standard arises and they turn their heels to confront, challenge, and demean my belief system because it may be more conservative than theirs or diametrically opposed to theirs. For instance, I have firm beliefs about abortion and the pain it causes individuals through guilt and shame. I believe there is a better way, a more excellent way in Christ. Yet, at the same time, I have compassion for people’s weaknesses and fear in making this choice and in Christ, I love them through it all, without judgment or condemnation.

In speaking truth, I am weighing the cost to my own life. Yet, here’s the deal.

For whoever desires to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake will find it. (Matthew 16:25 NKJV)

stockfresh_141486_flaming-heart_sizeXSI find my life as I lose my life in Christ. In doing this there is no internal division or internal strife tearing me apart because I compromised my own beliefs.

Before I open my mouth now, I weigh what I am going to speak into the situation carefully, very carefully. Quite often, I know that voicing my convictions will do nothing but stir animosity. I choose to accept that or remain quiet for a designated time. I see the end from the beginning in being silent. In standing firm, I gain wisdom.

“Set not out upon a mission to convert the world to your convictions, but rather to hold you own convictions inviolable against the forces of the opposition. I will be with thee, and will keep thy mouth. Trust me” Frances Roberts

DebraIn Christ,

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Time To Engage!

It is time to discern between a voice and an echo. An echo repeats, copies or imitates. A voice speaks what has been given to it in the secret place, hidden in Christ. This is a place where discernment to hear accompanied by wisdom to do, kicks in to sound out what is seen…and what is seen in the spirit often runs contrary to what is seen in the natural realm. Chaos in the earth – peace in Christ. Confusion abounds – clarity of vision hidden in Christ in heavenly places. There is truth in the secret place.

The spiritual takes precedence at all times over the natural. It is my reality. I look through the lens of Christ to truly see. What is seen in heavenly places helps me engage accurately in what is taking place on earth, giving me passion and purpose to walk out my faith, believing in Christ Jesus. It’s time to engage in Christ and speak!

This seems to lead into what is on my heart today. I am going round about to get to my point. Have you noticed some people drone on and on and on, talking, talking, completely oblivious to you? Words flow forth in quantity, yet hold very little quality. Here’s my Facebook post about it.

In this day and age, it is not wise to give credence to any sound. In fact it is very detrimental to our well-being to give affirmation to just any sound. People are talking, and talking, and talking. I pass over so much of the echoing noise to find the voices, those speaking light into dark places, speaking life into places filled with chaos and death.

People all around seem to be demanding attention to be heard. It’s hard to engage with this endless talk and that is why this statement struck me so hard.

“People drone on and on about things they’ve done even when they are normal things the rest of us do all the time.”

I am not obliged to listen anymore and my discernment level is up as to what I actually want to spend my time on. I do not presume to think that everyone will want to hang onto every word I say but I do know that I am called to be a voice and those with ears to hear me, to engage in what I am saying, will walk alongside me as I will listen and walk alongside them. It is not a time to gather the masses. Since when have true voices even gathered the masses? It is a time to gather those of quality, not quantity. And it is a time to gather people in the reality of Christ Jesus.

I weigh my words carefully but I was not always like that in times past. Like the Facebook post, I actually learned this while living quite a long time in Finland – the value of silence. Silence in Finland can be quite wonderful or quite intimidating. This is a place where words, unless they are of value, are not presumed upon to be spoken into the atmosphere just because one is able. There is an unwritten rule of conduct in Finland. One is not allowed to invade another’s space randomly or haphazardly. There are positives and negatives about this but I want to focus on the positives. I learned to just BE without the need to talk and talk and talk, which is basically seen as an inalienable right to most Americans. That is not always a good thing. We tend to talk and drone on but our listening skills and our ability to communicate are immature at times, many times.

Visual representation of a soundwave

“A time to tear and a time to sow. A time to keep silent and a time to speak.” Proverbs 3:7 (NKJV)

“The more talk, the less truth. The wise measure their words.” Proverbs 10:19 (Message)

“Even a fool is counted wise when he holds peace. When he shuts his lips, he is considered perceptive.” Proverbs 17:28 (NKJV)

I am not against conversation, fellowship or just being with friends, talking and laughing. God, we truly need that. I am talking about a necessary need in these times to weigh what we say carefully, neither to let fear or arrogant presumption guide us as we speak. There is a time to speak and a time to be silent. It is wisdom to know the difference.

This whole blog developed because over the past few years, as I talk to people, I see how much I am changing as I listen to hear what is being said and what isn’t being said through observation of actions. As I sat through telephone conversations where people did not even give me a chance to break in, or meeting people who asked to get to know me only to spend the majority of the time talking about themselves, or meeting people who interrupt, talk over and demand to be heard.

Silence learned in Finland and also in my times spent in the wilderness, God taught me and is teaching me to know the value in true conversation and the importance of voices bringing forth a true sound in this day and age. Let’s learn the difference.

The tables are turning and many that find themselves coming out, so to speak, after years of wilderness training and alone times with God, will have an aversion to sounds that do not speak truth with clarity, flowing in light and life. My ears are being trained to hear beyond the lying spirits of this age. My ears are being attuned to that which is an illusion or a deception. I have quieted down amidst the ever-invasive noise of culture at large to seek to not only see but to hear. Be still and know. It is a process that requires discipline on my part – turn off the TV (except for Downton Abbey of course), read (yes readers are leaders as TD Jakes quotes), meditate on Scripture, pray, listen and spend time with the Lord.

DebraIn Christ,

I would love to speak at your conference, gathering, church or home group. Contact me here, on Facebook or on Twitter. Enjoy reading about Rivers of Eden and the Timeline of our Life!